90 Day Fiancé: Exploring the complexities of Sophie Sierra and her mother Claire’s troubled relationship is revealed

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90 Day Fiancé Sophie Sierra in blue dress talking with raised hand and her mom in the back looking at her in blue top

90 Day Fiancé alum Sophie Sierra and her mom Claire Sierra have a complicated relationship with a lot of trauma that has been playing out both on and off-screen. 25-year-old England native Sophie has been in the 90 Day Fiancé franchise since she debuted in 90 Day Fiancé season 10 when she married her now-husband Rob Warne. The pair met on Instagram after Sophie slid into Rob’s DMs when she found him attractive while looking for mixed-race men. Rob and Sophie had problems with communication, trust, family, future goals, and infidelity in season 9 but got married anyway.

Rob and Sophie moved from Los Angeles, California, to Austin, Texas, where they subsequently broke up and Sophie moved out and in with her friend Kae. They have been appearing in 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? season 8, where their attempts at reconciliation have been highlighted. Sophie’s mom Claire has been a part of Rob and Sophie’s 90 Day Fiancé story from the beginning, as she’s found “Rob The Knob” to be unfit for Sophie. Rob and Sophie will appear on 90 Day: The Last Resort season 2 soon, but Sophie and Claire also have huge problems.

Sophie & Claire Grew Up With Wealth

Sophie & Claire Could Rely On Family Money

Sophie Sierra In 90 Day Fiance posing outdoors with black top

90 Day Fiancé alum Sophie described during her introduction to the franchise that she came from wealth. She said her grandpa was rich but that she didn’t know how he got all his money. Sophie grew up with privilege and was able to able to grow up in Spain and spend her youth clubbing in different places and not worrying about money. Rob underscored Sophie’s entitled life by saying she had “rich girl tendencies,” although Sophie tried to say she didn’t rely on family money anymore. Claire fell under the same privilege as Sophie. Sophie is also an only child.

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Sophie Has Trauma From Claire’s Drug Addiction

Sophie Was Exposed To Her Mom’s Addiction

Claire Sierra from 90 Day Fiance giving an interview

Sophie had to grow up quickly and largely on her own with a dad who was out of the picture and her mom Claire who had substance abuse issues. Claire’s past drug problem was only revealed in Happily Ever After? season 9, where Sophie recounted that she had to look after her mom more than Claire looked after her.

In the show, Sophie described that her mom also had a string of bad men in and out of her life, which prompted Sophie to want healthy love.

She wanted her marriage with Rob to work out and to have a family with him because she wanted a stable family like she didn’t have growing up. While Sophie grew up not wanting for anything material, she was missing a normal family life due to Claire’s parenting and addiction. Sophie had to grow up with Claire, who was trying to raise her as a single mom. In a Happily Ever After? interview Sophie described the apparent trauma she went through by witnessing her mom’s addiction and having to be raised in that environment.

Sophie & Claire Had A Very Open & Close Relationship

Sophie & Claire Have Been Best Friends

Sophie as a little girl and Claire Sierra holding her In 90 Day Fiance in throwback photo

Despite the problems Claire presented throughout Sophie’s childhood and the nature and which she had to grow up, Sophie and Claire were always very close.

“It’s not really like a mother-daughter relationship. It’s more like sisters I’d say, ” Sophie said.

Sophie said that when she moved back to Spain from England, her mom moved back to England with her despite hating the UK. When Sophie moved to Mexico, Claire moved with her and stayed the entire time.

Upon moving to America to LA, Claire found herself in the U.S. a lot. When Sophie and Rob moved to Austin, Claire got herself an Austin-based boyfriend. It was also revealed in April 2024, that Claire had been living with Sophie and Kae for several months before Sophie asked her mom to leave. Claire has followed Sophie wherever she’s gone, signaling how attached the mother and daughter duo are. However, they have had serious personal issues.

Claire Exposed Rob Warne’s Verbal Abuse Toward Sophie

Claire Shared A Private Video Of Sophie’s

Claire has always hated Rob, as evidenced by their fiery exchanges in the 90 Day Fiancé franchise (via ET.) That said, in early May 2024, Claire took it upon herself to publicly share private videos that Sophie had sent her of Rob verbally abusing her on several occasions.

Claire seemingly shared the videos on Instagram to showcase Rob’s abuse and to condemn the notion that she was a controlling mother, but Claire’s posts only served to cause a massive strain with Sophie, and then matters got worse.

Sophie Had Claire Arrested

Claire Crossed The Line

In a montage photo, 90 Day Fiancé's Claire Sierra looks angry and smiles.

After Claire leaked Sophie’s videos, Sophie responded in an Instagram story indirectly calling her mom and her mom’s actions out. Sophie said her mom leaked the videos not to protect her but to blackmail her. Sophie said the videos were private and not meant to be shared.

“The person posting has serious mental issues.”

Sophie relayed she was disgusted by Claire’s actions and that her mom was trying to ruin her life.

Claire was arrested on May 10, 2024, for an incident that happened on May 9, 2024. She was arrested for “terroristic threat of a family/household member.” After weeks of alleged escalation between Sophie, Claire, and Kae, Sophie was reported to have called the police on her mom after Claire said she would harm herself if Sophie didn’t send her money. Sophie also claimed that Claire was sending her death threats.

Claire Thinks She & Sophie Will Be Fine

Is Claire Living In A Fantasy World?

90 Day Fiance's Tor'i, Sophie Sierra, Claire Sierra and Rob Warne have serious expressions.

Claire spent six days in jail before the charges were dropped. Claire promptly made a video saying she just got her hair done and had done nothing wrong. She also said that she would always love Sophie no matter what and that even though she and Sophie were “estranged” they would be fine.

Claire doesn’t seem to think she has caused her daughter any harm, while Sophie appears to think quite the opposite. In another video, Claire described that she was going to go back to Spain and to the help of her family. However, given Claire and Sophie’s past history, it might not be long before the volatile mother and daughter are in communication again. Claire posts frequently on social media, so it’s likely 90 Day Fiancé fans will be hearing about future developments on there.